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appropriate setting to the little comedy。 There the modest purses of the
exiles found rents within their reach�察 �the quarters vast and airy。 The
galleries and the park afforded a diversion�察�and then Paris�察�dear Paris�察�the
American Mecca�察�was within reach。 At the time I knew it�察�the colony was
fairly prosperous�察�many of its members living in the two or three principal
PENSIONS�察�the others in apartments of their own。 They gave feeble little
entertainments among themselves�察�card´parties and teas�察�and dined about
with each other at their respective TABLES D'HOTE�察 �even knowing a
stray Frenchman or two�察 �whom the quest of a meal had tempted out of
their native fastnesses as it does the wolves in a hard winter。 Writing and
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receiving letters from America was one of the principal occupations�察�and
an epistle descriptive of a particular event at home went the rounds�察�and
was eagerly read and discussed。
The merits of the different PENSIONS also formed a subject of vital
interest。 The advantages and disadvantages of these rival establishments
were�察 �as a topic�察 �never exhausted。 MADAME UNE TELLE gave five
o'clock tea�察�included in the seven francs a day�察�but her rival gave one more
meat course at dinner and her coffee was certainly better�察 �while a third
undoubtedly had a nicer set of people。 No one here at home can realize the
importance these matters gradually assume in the eyes of the exiles。 Their
slender incomes have to be so carefully handled to meet the strain of even
this simple way of living�察�if they are to show a surplus for a little trip to
the seashore in the summer months�察�that an extra franc a day becomes a
serious consideration。
Every now and then a family stronger´minded than the others�察�or with
serious reasons for returning home ��a daughter to bring out or a son to put
into business���察�would break away from its somnolent surroundings and re´
cross the Atlantic�察�alternating between hope and fear。 It is here that a sad
fate awaits these modern Rip Van Winkles。 They find their native cities
changed beyond recognition。 ��For we move fast in these days。�� The
mother gets out her visiting list of ten years before and is thunderstruck to
find that it contains chiefly names of the ;dead�察 �the divorced�察 �and
defaulted。; The waves of a decade have washed over her place and the
world she once belonged to knows her no more。 The leaders of her day on
whose aid she counted have retired from the fray。 Younger�察 �and alas� �
unknown faces sit in the opera boxes and around the dinner tables where
before she had found only friends。 After a feeble little struggle to get again
into the ;swim�察─�the family drifts back across the ocean into the quiet back
water of a continental town�察�and goes circling around with the other twigs
and dry leaves�察�moral flotsam and jetsam�察�thrown aside by the great rush
of the outside world。
For the parents the life is not too sad。 They have had their day�察�and are�察�
perhaps�察�a little glad in their hearts of a quiet old age�察�away from the heat
and sweat of the battle�察�but for the younger generation it is annihilation。
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Each year their circle grows smaller。 Death takes away one member after
another of the family�察�until one is left alone in a foreign land with no ties
around her�察�or with her far´away ;home�察─�the latter more a name now than
a reality。
A year or two ago I was taking luncheon with our consul at his
primitive villa�察 �an hour's ride from the city of Tangier�察 �a ride made on
donkey´back�察 �as no roads exist in that sunny land。 After our coffee and
cigars�察�he took me a half´hour's walk into the wilderness around him to
call on his nearest neighbors�察�whose mode of existence seemed a source of
anxiety to him。 I found myself in the presence of two American ladies�察�the
younger being certainly not less than seventy´five。 To my astonishment I
found they had been living there some thirty years�察�since the death of their
parents�察�in an isolation and remoteness impossible to describe�察�in an Arab
house�察 �with native servants�察 �the world forgetting�察 �by the world forgot。;
Yet these ladies had names well known in New York fifty years ago。
The glimpse I had of their existence made me thoughtful as I rode
home in the twilight�察�across a suburb none too safe for strangers。 What had
the future in store for those two�拭�Or�察�worse still�察�for the survivor of those
two�拭 �In contrast�察 �I saw a certain humble ;home; far away in America�察�
where two old ladies were ending their lives surrounded by loving friends
and relations�察�honored and cherished and guarded tenderly from the rude
world。
In big cities like Paris and Rome there is another class of the
expatriated�察�the wealthy who have left their homes in a moment of pique
after the failure of some social or political ambition�察�and who find in these
centres the recognition refused them at home and for which their souls
thirsted。
It is not to these I refer�察�although it is curious to see a group of people
living for years in a country of which they�察�half the time�察�do not speak the
language ��beyond the necessities of house´ keeping and shopping���察�
knowing but few of its inhabitants�察�and seeing none of the society of the
place�察�their acquaintance rarely going beyond that equivocal�察�hybrid class
that surrounds rich ;strangers; and hangs on to the outer edge of the
GRAND MONDE。 One feels for this latter class merely contempt�察 �but
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one's pity is reserved for the former。 What object lessons some lives on the
Continent would be to impatient souls at home�察�who feel discontented with
their surroundings�察 �and anxious to break away and wander abroad� �Let
them think twice before they cut the thousand ties it has taken a lifetime to
form。 Better monotony at your own fireside�察 �my friends�察 �where at the
worst�察�you are known and have your place�察�no matter how small�察�than an
old age among strangers。
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CHAPTER 12 ´ ;Seven Ages; of
Furniture
THE progress through life of active´minded Americans is apt to be a
series of transformations。 At each succeeding phase of mental
development�察�an old skin drops from their growing intelligence�察�and they
assimilate the ideas and tastes of their new condition�察�with a facility and
completeness unknown to other nations。
One series of metamorphoses particularly amusing to watch is�察�that of
an observant�察�receptive daughter of Uncle Sam who�察�aided and followed
��at a distance�� by an adoring husband�察 �gradually develops her excellent
brain�察�and rises through fathoms of self´culture and purblind experiment�察�
to the surface of dilettantism and connoisseurship。 One can generally
detect the exact stage of evolution such a lady has reached by the bent of
her conversation�察�the books she is reading�察�and�察�last but not least�察�by her
material surroundings�察�no outward and visible signs reflecting inward and
spiritual grace so clearly as the objects people collect around them for the
adornment of their rooms�察�or the way in which those rooms are decorated。
A few years ago�察�when a young man and his bride set up housekeeping
on their own account�察 �the ;old people; of both families seized the
opportunity to unload on the beginners ��under the pretence of helping
them along�� a quantity of furniture and belongings that had ��as the
shopkeepers say�� ;ceased to please; their original owners。 The narrow
quarters of the tyros are encumbered by ungainly sofas and arm´chairs�察�
most probably of carved rosewood。 ETAGERES OF the same lugubrious
material grace the corners of their tiny drawing´ room�察�the bits of mirror
inserted between the shelves distorting the image of the owners into
headless or limbless phantoms。 Half of their little dining´room is filled
with a black´walnut sideboard�察�ingeniously contrived to take up as much
space as possible and hold nothing�察�its graceless top adorned with a stag's
head carved in wood and imitation antlers。
The novices in their innocence live contented amid their hideous
surroundings for a year or two�察 �when the wife enters her second epoch�察�
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which�察 �for want of a better word�察 �we will call the Japanese period。 The
grim furniture gradually disappears under a layer of silk and gauze
draperies�察�the bare walls blossom with paper umbrellas�察�fans are nailed in
groups promiscuously�察�wherever an empty space offends her eye。 Bows of
ribbon are attached to every possible protuberance of the furniture。 Even
the table service is not spared。 I remember dining at a house in this stage
of its artistic development�察 �where the marrow bones that formed one
course of the dinner appeared each with a coquettish little bow´knot of
pink ribbon around its neck。
Once launched on this sea of adornment�察�the housewife soon loses her
bearings and decorates indiscriminately。 Her old evening dresses serve to
drape the mantelpieces�察 �and she passes every spare hour embroidering�察�
braiding�察�or fringing some material to adorn her rooms。 At Christmas her
friends contribute specimens of their handiwork to the collection。
The view of other houses and other decorations before long introduces
the worm of discontent into the blossom of our friend's contentment。 The
fruit of her labors becomes ta