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a thing of the past as a GRISETTE or a glyphisodon。 It disappeared with 

Gavarni and the authors who described it。 Although we have kept the word�察�

its   meaning   has gradually  changed until it has   come   to   mean   something 

difficult to define�察�a will´o'´the´wisp�察�which one tries vainly to grasp。 With 

each   decade   it   has   put   on   a   new   form   and   changed   its   centre�察  �the   one 

definite   fact   being   that   it   combines   the   better   elements   of   several   social 

layers。 

     Drop in�察�if   you   are   in   Paris   and   know  the   way�察  �at   one   of   Madeleine 

Lemaire's informal evenings in her studio。 There you may find the Prince 

de Ligne�察�chatting with Rejane or Coquelin�察�or Henri d'Orleans�察�just back 

from   an   expedition   into   Africa。   A   little   further   on�察  �Saint´Saens   will   be 

running over the keys�察�preparing an accompaniment for one of Madame de 

Tredern's songs。 The Princess Mathilde ��that passionate lover of art�� will 

surely be there�察�and ´ but it is needless to particularize。 

     Cross   the   Channel�察  �and   get   yourself   asked   to   one   of   Irving's   choice 

suppers   after   the   play。   You   will   find   the   bar�察  �the   stage�察  �and   the   pulpit 

represented there�察�a ;happy family; over which the ;Prince; often presides�察�

smoking cigar after cigar�察�until the tardy London daylight appears to break 

up the entertainment。 

     For both are centres where the gifted and the travelled meet the great 

of   the   social   world�察  �on   a   footing   of   perfect   equality�察  �and   where�察  �if   any 

prestige is accorded�察�it is that of brains。 When you have seen these places 

and a dozen others like them�察�you will realize what the actor's wife had in 



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her mind。 

     Now�察�let me whisper to you why I think such circles do not exist in 

this country。 In the first place�察�we are still too provincial in this big city of 

ours。    New     York    always    reminds     me    of  a  definition    I  once    heard    of 

California fruit�此 �Very large�察�with no particular flavor。; We are like a boy�察�

who has had the misfortune to grow too quickly and look like a man�察�but 

whose mind has not kept pace with his body。 What he knows is undigested 

and chaotic�察�while his appearance makes you expect more of him than he 

can give ´ hence disappointment。 

     Our   society   is   yet   in   knickerbockers�察  �and   has   retained   all   sorts   of 

littlenesses     and    prejudices     which    older    civilizations    have    long    since 

relegated to the mental lumber room。 An equivalent to this point of view 

you will find in England or France only in the smaller ;cathedral; cities�察�

and even there the old aristocrats have the courage of their opinions。 Here�察�

where  everything   is   quite  frankly  on   a   money  basis�察  �and ;positions;   are 

made and lost like a fortune�察�by a turn of the market�察�those qualities which 

are   purely   mental�察  �and   on   which   it   is   hard   to   put   a   practical   value�察  �are 

naturally at a discount。 We are quite ready to pay for the best。 Witness our 

private   galleries   and   the   opera�察  �but   we   say�察  �like   the   parvenu   in   Emile 

Augier's delightful comedy LE GENDRE DE M。 POIRIER�察 �Patronize art�拭�

Of   course�   �But   the   artists�拭  �Never� ─�And   frankly�察  �it   would   be   too   much�察�

would it not�察�to expect a family only half a generation away from an iron 

foundry�察�or a mine�察�to be willing to receive Irving or Bernhardt on terms of 

perfect equality�拭�

     As it would be unjust to demand a mature mind in the overgrown boy�察�

it is useless to hope for delicate tact and social feeling from the parvenu。 

To be gracious and at ease with all classes and professions�察�one must be 

perfectly sure of one's own position�察�and with us few feel this security�察�it 

being based on too frail a foundation�察�a crisis in the ;street; going a long 

way towards destroying it。 

     Of   course   I   am   generalizing   and   doubt   not   that   in   many   cultivated 

homes   the   right   spirit   exists�察  �but   unfortunately   these   are   not   the   centres 

which   give   the   tone   to   our   ;world。;   Lately   at   one   of   the   most   splendid 

houses in this city a young Italian tenor had been engaged to sing。 When 



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he had finished he stood alone�察�unnoticed�察�unspoken to for the rest of the 

evening。 He had been paid to sing。 ;What more�察�in common sense�察�could 

he want�拭─�thought the ;world�察─�without reflecting that it was probably not 

the TENOR who lost by that arrangement。 It needs a delicate hand to hold 

the reins over the backs of such a fine´mouthed community as artists and 

singers form。 They rarely give their best when singing or performing in a 

hostile atmosphere。 

     A few years ago when a fancy´dress ball was given at the Academy of 

Design�察�the original idea was to have it an artists' ball�察�the community of 

the   brush   were�察  �however�察  �approached   with   such   a   complete   lack   of   tact 

that�察  �with   hardly   an   exception�察  �they   held   aloof�察  �and   at   the   ball   shone 

conspicuous by their absence。 

     At present in this city I know of but two hospitable firesides where you 

are sure to meet the best the city holds of either foreign or native talent。 

The one is presided over by the wife of a young composer�察�and the other�察�

oddly   enough�察  �by   two   unmarried   ladies。   An   invitation   to   a   dinner   or   a 

supper  at   either  of   these  houses   is   as   eagerly  sought   after  and   as   highly 

prized in the great world as it is by the Bohemians�察�though neither ;salon; 

is open regularly。 

     There   is   still   hope   for   us�察  �and   I   already   see   signs   of   better   things。 

Perhaps�察�when my English friend returns in a few years�察�we may be able to 

prove to her that we have found the road to Prague。 



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              CHAPTER 11 ´ Social Exiles 



       BALZAC�察       �in  his   COMEDIE         HUMAINE�察        �has   reviewed     with   a 

master´hand almost every phase of the Social World of Paris down to 1850 

and Thackeray left hardly a corner of London High Life unexplored�察�but 

so great have been the changes ��progress�察�its admirers call it�撮� since then�察�

that�察  �could   Balzac   come   back   to   his beloved   Paris�察  �he   would   feel   like   a 

foreigner there�察�and Thackeray�察�who was among us but yesterday�察�would 

have difficulty in finding his bearings in the sea of the London world to´ 

day。 

     We have changed so radically that even a casual observer cannot help 

being      struck    by    the    difference。     Among       other    most     significant 

;phenomena; has   appeared   a phase of   life that not only  neither of   these 

great men observed ��for the very good reason that it had not appeared in 

their time���察�but which seems also to have escaped the notice of the writers 

of   our   own   day�察  �close   observers   as   they   are   of   any   new   development。   I 

mean the class of Social Exiles�察�pitiable wanderers from home and country�察�

who haunt the Continent�察�and are to be found ��sad little colonies�� in out´ 

of´the´way corners of almost every civilized country。 

     To   know   much   of   this   form   of   modern   life�察  �one   must   have   been   a 

wanderer�察�like myself�察�and have pitched his tent in many queer places�察�for 

they are shy game and not easily raised�察�frequenting mostly quiet old cities 

like   Versailles   and   Florence�察  �or   inexpensive   watering´places   where   their 

meagre      incomes     become     affluence    by   contrast。   The    first  thought   on 

dropping in on such a settlement is�察 �How in the world did these people 

ever   drift   here�拭─  �It   is   simple   enough   and   generally   comes   about   in   this 

way�此�

     The father of a wealthy family dies。 The fortune turns out to be less 

than was expected。 The widow and children decide to go abroad for a year 

or    so�察 �during   their   period   of  mourning�察     �partially  for   distraction�察  �and 

partially ��a fact which is not spoken of�� because at home they would be 

forced to change their way of living to a simpler one�察�and that is hard to do�察�

just at first。 Later they think it will be quite easy。 So the family emigrates�察�

and after a little sight´seeing�察�settles in Dresden or Tours�察�casually at first�察�



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in   a   hotel。   If   there   are   young   children   they   are   made   the   excuse。   ;The 

languages are so important� ─�Or else one of the daughters develops a taste 

for music�察�or   a son takes up   the study  of art。  In a   year or   two�察�before   a 

furnished      apartment      is  taken�察  �the   idea   of  returning     is  discussed�察    �but 

abandoned ;for the present。; They begin vaguely to realize how difficult it 

will   be   to   take   life   up   again   at   home。   During   all   this   time   their   income 

��like   everything   else   when   the   owners   are   absent��   has   been   slowly   but 

surely  disappearing�察  �making   the   return   each   year   more   difficult。   Finally�察�

for economy�察�an unfurnished apartment is taken。 They send home for bits 

of furniture and family belongings�察�and gradually drop into the great army 

of the expatriated。 

     Oh�察�the pathos of it� �One who has not seen these poor stranded waifs 

in   their   self´imposed   exile�察  �with   eyes   turned   towards   their   native   land�察�

cannot realize all the sadness and loneliness they endure�察�rarely adopting 

the country of their residence but becoming more firmly American as the 

years   go   by。   The   home   papers   and   periodicals   are   taken�察  �the   American 

church attended�察�if there happens to be one�察�the English chapel�察�if there is 

not。 Never a French church� �In their hearts they think it almost irreverent 

to read the service in French。 The acquaintance of a few fellow´ exiles is 

made and that of a half´dozen English families�察�mothers and daughters and 

a younger son or two�察�whom the ferocious primogeniture custom has cast 

out of the homes of their childhood to economize on the Continent。 

     I have in my mind a little settlement of this kind at Versailles�察�which 

was a type。 The formal old city�察�fallen from its grandeur�察�was a singularly 

appropriate   setting   to   the   little   comedy。   There   the   modest   p

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